Philosophy & Approach

About Strength in Harmony

Welcome to Strength in Harmony, a haven for transformative psychotherapy and personal growth. At our clinic, we believe in the power of resilience, self-discovery, and cultivating a harmonious balance within the parts of an individual. At the heart of Strength in Harmony is the belief that each person possesses innate strength and the potential for growth.

Strength in Harmony emerged from a key need in the therapeutic space: For men to have a therapy service that provides understanding, insight, knowledge, and accountability. We equip our clients with roadmaps and frameworks to help work towards meaningful changes outside of therapy sessions. Many of our clients expressed that their previous therapy experiences were helpful in terms of reflective listening and cultivating emotional awareness but would miss the mark when it came time to create meaningful action plans. We understand that every individual's path is unique, and we tailor our therapeutic approaches to meet your specific needs.

Whether you are seeking support for addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, career navigation or personal growth, Strength in Harmony is here to help. We are passionate about fostering resilience, empowering individuals to overcome challenges, and promoting a sense of inner harmony.

Our Approach to Working with Clients: Therapeutic Modalities

The Therapeutic Alliance

The therapeutic alliance, often referred to as the therapeutic relationship, is a cornerstone of effective counseling and psychotherapy, playing a pivotal role in the client's journey toward healing and personal growth. This powerful bond between therapist and client forms the foundation for a safe, collaborative, and supportive space where transformative work can occur.

At the heart of the therapeutic alliance is trust. Clients must feel a sense of safety and confidence in their therapist, creating an environment conducive to open and honest exploration of thoughts, emotions, and experiences. This trust allows individuals to delve into vulnerable aspects of themselves, fostering a deeper understanding of their challenges and facilitating the therapeutic process.

Effective communication is another key element. A strong therapeutic alliance is built on clear and empathetic communication between therapist and client. The therapist's ability to actively listen, validate, and respond with empathy cultivates a space where clients feel heard and understood. This, in turn, fosters a sense of connection and validation, essential for emotional healing.

The therapeutic alliance serves as a collaborative partnership. By working together, therapist and client can identify goals, explore coping strategies, and navigate challenges. This shared commitment to the therapeutic process empowers individuals to actively engage in their own healing journey, promoting a sense of agency and autonomy.

Research consistently highlights the positive impact of a strong therapeutic alliance on treatment outcomes. A robust alliance has been linked to increased client satisfaction, better adherence to treatment plans, and improved overall mental health outcomes. This underscores the importance of investing time and energy in building and maintaining this crucial bond.

In conclusion, the therapeutic alliance is a linchpin in the field of counseling, creating the foundation for meaningful and transformative therapeutic work. By prioritizing trust, communication, and collaboration, therapists can help clients navigate the complexities of their lives, fostering an environment where healing, growth, and positive change can flourish.

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) stands as a dynamic and innovative approach to mental health and well-being, designed to empower individuals to lead richer, more fulfilling lives. ACT, rooted in the contextual behavioural science tradition, focuses on cultivating psychological flexibility—the ability to be open, adaptable, and effective in the presence of difficult thoughts and emotions.

ACT therapy encourages clients to embrace their emotions rather than suppress or avoid them. The therapist works collaboratively with individuals to identify their core values, the aspects of life that bring meaning and purpose. The process involves developing mindfulness skills to observe thoughts and feelings without judgment while fostering acceptance of life's inevitable challenges.

Central to ACT is the concept of "defusion," which involves distancing oneself from unhelpful thoughts and realizing that they are just mental events, not absolute truths. Through a variety of experiential exercises and metaphors, clients learn to detach from the grip of negative thought patterns, enabling a more liberated and empowered mindset.

A key component of ACT is committed action, where individuals align their behaviours with their values. This involves setting meaningful goals and taking steps towards a life in accordance with one's values, even in the face of discomfort or adversity. The therapeutic process supports clients in building resilience and persistence as they navigate their unique life journey.

ACT has demonstrated effectiveness in treating a range of mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and chronic pain. It is particularly adaptable to diverse populations and can be integrated into various therapeutic settings, from individual counselling to group interventions.

In summary, ACT therapy provides a roadmap for individuals to enhance their psychological flexibility, allowing them to respond more effectively to life's challenges. By embracing acceptance, mindfulness, and committed action, clients can experience transformative change, leading to a more authentic and value-driven life. ACT stands as a beacon for those seeking to break free from the shackles of unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, fostering a path towards genuine self-discovery and well-being.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a revolutionary therapeutic approach that delves into the intricate landscape of one's psyche to foster healing and self-discovery. Rooted in the belief that individuals possess a multitude of distinct inner personalities or "parts," IFS seeks to harmonize these internal dynamics for emotional well-being.

The therapy, developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, guides clients through a process of self-exploration where they identify and interact with various parts of their personality. Each part is seen as having unique emotions, beliefs, and memories, often developed in response to life experiences. The therapist assists clients in understanding the roles these parts play in their lives and helps establish a compassionate dialogue among them.

One of the key principles of IFS is the concept of the "Self," a core, undamaged, and compassionate aspect within every individual. The therapist supports clients in connecting with their Self, acting as a healing force to bring balance and harmony to the internal system. This approach helps clients navigate challenges, alleviate emotional burdens, and build a more integrated sense of self.

IFS therapy is particularly effective in addressing a range of mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties. By fostering an understanding of internal conflicts and empowering clients to engage with their inner parts with curiosity and compassion, IFS promotes lasting transformation and healing.

Moreover, IFS can be adapted to various therapeutic modalities, making it a versatile tool in the hands of trained professionals. Whether used in individual, couples, or group therapy settings, IFS provides a framework for clients to explore the depths of their psyche and cultivate a more cohesive and resilient self.

In conclusion, IFS therapy offers a unique and powerful avenue for individuals to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. By embracing the complexity of the human mind and promoting inner harmony, IFS empowers clients to navigate life's challenges with a newfound sense of wholeness and resilience.

Clinician Bios

About Chris Pankewich

I am a Registered Psychotherapist (RP-Q) with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). The focus of my formal training (MACP) involved the integration of best practices from cognitive, mindful, and trauma-informed practices in the field of counselling psychology.

To compliment my psychotherapeutic training, I have trained in yoga practices (RYT-200 in progress) that emphasize the role various systems of the body play in cultivating mental health & wellness.

Being a client of skilled psychotherapists was a major factor in overcoming my own mental health challenges in the past. I am eternally grateful for the practitioners that supported my journey to transform my anxieties, regrets, and overall ability to shape my life in a more authentic direction.

Now that I work as a mental health practitioner, I seek to share the same knowledge and wisdom to help others create a more connected, present, and engaging life.


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